Some general life guidelines and rules that made me a happier being:
Foundational rules for a happy existence:
- Friends
- Have Goals
- Have A Life Story
- Money Isn’t The Answer
- Keep Growing
Observations:
- Routine is the enemy of time: time is a relative thing. A week filled with new experiences will feel longer than two week of the same routine everyday. Time is valuable, so make it count.
- Without a goal, you can’t score: when you don’t have a target it is hard to be satisfied with the work you’ve done. A soccer player can give a great free kick, but if it just ends up bouncing on the grass there is no satisfaction. Imagine the player scoring a great goal. Satisfying isn’t it?
- Save time - not money, as money is used to buy back time. A lot of what we do in life is a tradeoff between money and time. You can substitute these two in a lot of ways. When possible, always substitute money for time and try to avoid exchanging time for money
- Be more concerned about being interested than being interesting. Being interesting is fun as you get a lot of people to ask you advice about a lot of your experiences. Nevertheless, being interested is what makes you happy, unless you’re a narcist.
- Humans design objects trying to beat nature in efficiency and beauty
Motivation is fleeting, discipline is not:
No time = no motivation = no priority
The most dangerous thing you can do in life is to play it safe
Dullness => creating/buying/looking for new experiences as they are not present in the daily life. When out of comfort zone: new impulses, new sights, hunger for life is satisfied
Nature satisfies this need for new impulses, therefore man needs nature to be happy
Life: Avoiding pain - seeking pleasure - purpose
- Keep a to-don't list
- politely learn to say no
- start sooner
- communicate deadlines
- create space to work (physical and time)